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Sex is Great

May 14, 2009 by David Gordon

SEX IS GREAT

by the Editor

We're all agreed here at EAP. Sex is great. Only it's a really private thing, just like anything that's truly important, and anyone using it for their own ends, other than their own and their partner's pleasure, should just butt out.

I think that's a sensible point of view.

Mike Madrid reminisces about discovering 'dirty' things in secret: RESTRICTED. Chuck Ivy deconstructs high art film porn. Mat Capper feels kind of guilty that he thinks about sex in a, well, meaningful way, and wonders if he's all man.  Harvey Lillywhite , older than Mat, knows for sure he is; they both are. Brian Griffith reports on a more playful sex life than the one you can watch made so laboriously playful in the media in NA LOVE LIFE: The Famous Furtive Visit. Ralph Dartford sends a crackerjack story about the specificity of desire: UNDRESSED. A young Erick Bengel is pissed off about THE STIGMA OF VIRGINITY . Check out Kid Carpet's lyrics to YOUR LOVE for a truly modern love song. Johanna Warren explains WHY SONGS ABOUT POLAR BEARS ARE BETTER THAN SONGS ABOUT SEX. And JAM TODAY gives some helpful hints on how to support your private love life, culinarily speaking.

GREENBEARD doesn't have anything to do with sex, but you might want to check it out just for the great description of eighteenth century London.

Okay, it's agreed: Sex should always be about private pleasure and private use. It's for partnership, not for domination. Whenever it's used for power over someone else, that's domination hidden, not real sex at all.  EAP's Occam's Razor.

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